I only date women of color. A white woman can’t understand a colored mans struggle in the world of corporate America or the prejudice we face.
A colored woman can Understand and EMPATHIZE with you, a white woman can sympathize but they can’t understand it.
At all. Most white women don’t even have a fucking PART of a clue what we face. They live in their own bubble of denial and pumpkin spice Starbucks most of the time.
I can’t be with a white woman because some to most of the time, they only see black men as a way to piss off their dad, or see us for our dicks, and the stereotype we talk “HOOD” and they find that sexy.
They don’t like us for us, they only like us because were black. We are fetishized by white women subconsciously, rather than cared for.
So, I’d really rather date a woman of color.
This is so dumb and sad lol
How so? Tell me how it’s dumb and sad… I’d love to hear your view on why MY OWN BELIEF
Yes. Its your own belief. Your own opinion. Youre very much entitled to it. But that doesnt mean it can’t be wrong or dumb or sad or ignorant. Which it is. You know, we hate how white people generalize us with all of these stereotypes but here you are generalizing & stereotyping all white women. Come on homie.
"they only see black men as a way to piss off their dad, or see us for our dicks, and the stereotype we talk “HOOD” and they find that sexy."
Like there aren’t black men who date white women because they’re white. Like there aren’t black men who date white women because they see them as some kind of status symbol for success & superiority. People of every race have their preferences. For whatever reasons. Whether they’re morally justified or not.
No, white people don’t go through what we do. But how can you really say that none of them can’t sympathize or understand? LMAO. Are you fucking serious? Why? Because they’re white? So all white people lack empathy & understanding for those who are not white? Son there are white people out in ferguson who have our backs. Marching with us & protesting. Its obviously more black than white but my nigga they’re not all bad. They may not have experienced it personally, but Im sure they see & hear whats going on & can imagine how it must feel.
Im sure if your girl truly loved & cared about you, she could sympathize & understand what you go through if you talk to her about it, you know? Im just annoyed that you generalized them all to be like that. And your reason for not being able to date them is petty & its a pathetic reason. Like fam, why are you mad at somebody for not understanding what they’ve never experienced or gone through? This post lacked logic like hell.
Just don’t generalize any race bruh. Being black you should be the last to do it knowing how it feels to be labeled a certain type of person because of your skin color.
Okay I’m white and date black guys? I don’t date them just because they are black or to piss off my parents or for their dick size bc literally every black guy ive been with has a size 4 inches or smaller, so how could that possibly be a reason? Also since I date poc I literally get harassed and have racial slurs thrown at me too! Like there are certain guys who won’t even consider talking to me solely based off the fact that I’ve dated a poc. I’ve also been called so many names for it. Like “n**** lover” “porch monkey lover” and have been called “RUINED” because I’ve dated black guys. You think I can’t sympathize? You should see the looks I get in stores when I’m with my black boyfriends or even just friends. I can very much relate and sympathize. So I’m just sayin DO NOT PUT ME IN A CATEGORY I clearly don’t fit in because I really don’t appreciate it and I’m sure you can defiantly relate to that!!!
This white girl is madd because exactly what y’all are sayin. White people hate being left out of anything, but there are many black men that can still see there are racial issues that heavily effect our bruthas and sistas and until we are equally respected and do not feel the white prejudice and white privilege stunting our people why would we see value in being with and sharing a life a white person. It actually makes no sense for those of us who feel this way. There’s been centuries of work being done to twist our view of beauty and self value. The darker you are the uglier you are. It’s ridiculous that just because there are some black people that haven’t really been effected or bothered by white prejudice, that y’all act like colored people that DO feel the problems and ARE effected by society are out of line for saying so?.. Jumping to white people’s aide like that, they’re good lol don’t nobody gotta worry bout white people they’ll be just fine without y’all running to defend them lol like really.. were talking about why some, not all black people do not feel comfortable wit white people. That’s all. You can dis agree all you want but some black people see and feel things white people do not and will not have to deal wit. Ever. And therefore might not be comfortable being with a white person.